ITS OK TO BE MAD IF ITS FOR ALLAH'S SAKE AND HIS APOSTLE... AND I'M MAD... OUR IMAMS ARE MY PROBLEM.... LET ME GIVE U A TINY DAILY EXAMPLE... TODAY FOR INSTANCE MY DAD GOT A PHONE CALL FROM A VERY FAMOUS RESPECTED MUSLIM SCHOLAR INVITING MY DAD AND HIS FAMILY... (WHICH IS ALL OF US)... WHY?! GUESS WHY!!! TO ATTEND HIS DAUGHTERS ENGAGMENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I MEAN... HE'S SUPPOSED TO BE OUR ROLE MODEL... AND THE PROPHET SAID (IKTIMO ALKHETBA WA A'LENO ALNEKA'H) IE; KEEP ENGAGEMENTS DOWN, AND SPILL THE BEANS WHEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE,... AND HE'S JUST LIKE THE REST OF PPL IN THIS TOWN TAKING ALL THE MINDLESS TRADITIONS AND PRACTISING THEM............. WALLAHI I FEEL SOOOO SAD NOW... ... LIKE SOMETHING ELSE... THERE IS THIS SHEIKHA WHO'S A TRUELY KNOWLEDGABLE PERSON... SHE SENT HER DAUGHTER TO ANOTHER CITY HERE IN UAE... ASSUMING THAT ITS OK WITHOUT A MIHRAM FRO HER EDUCATION... WHILE SHE DOESNT WANT TO SEND HER TO MANCHESTAR WHERE HER BROTHER (WHO IS FULLY MATURE) IS STUDYING; TO STUDY WITH HIM, SAYING THAT THIS IS FITNA.... GOOOOOOOOOOOOOD... PPL SEEM TO MAKE WHATS HALAL HARAM AND VICE VERSA...